Saturday, February 24, 2024

Too many sports!

Life with an active 8-year old definitely keeps us busy. In addition to weekly piano lessons, Jonas attends three days of taekwondo (one of which is "tricking"...like taekwondo mixed with parkour). He loves it! In fact, it's the one sport he isn't willing to give up. He is on his way to a black belt and there's no stopping him. This month, Jonas achieved his blue belt. I'm so proud of his dedication and determination. It's fun to see his skills develop over the different belt levels. From blue belt, there are only 6 more belt advancements to black belt. Way to go Jonas!










The past couple of months Jonas also decided to participate in both basketball and volleyball with Salem Rec. He had a blast! Two of his friends, Madden Wall and Winston Gourley, were on his basketball team. He didn't know anyone on his volleyball team but quickly made friends. If he had to choose, he would say basketball was his favorite, but he had fun playing both. In fact, I think volleyball was more fun for him because he wasn't as invested in winning. His basketball team was awesome, and Jonas was one of the major play makers. He wasn't afraid to steal a ball or get stuck in the chaos under the basket. He was pretty good at rebounding or stealing a ball then making a fast break to his basket. It was fun to watch him play both. It was a busy couple of months but worth it! Not sure what sport (if any) he'll play in the future. Right now, he just enjoys playing all of them.











As if Jonas's sports aren't enough, we also made it a point to try to make Jacob's home wrestling duals. This is an end of an era for him. He will no longer be wrestling on a team next year. I don't think he'll fully give it up. I'm sure he'll find a way to train or coach or even wrestle in some way still, but this is it for his time as a Wolverine at UVU. We attended his last home dual on Saturday (February 24th). They honored all the seniors that day. He has really worked hard over his wrestling career and has several accomplishments to his name. It has been awesome to see his dedication to this sport.






(On top of all that, there have been a few weekends that Stan, Kristi, and Maci have come to Utah for Maci's volleyball tournaments. We were lucky enough to meet up with them one Saturday to watch Maci play. We love hanging out with them and don't do it often enough because of our kids (and ours) schedules so whenever we have a chance to catch up, we do! Plus, we love supporting family!)








Wednesday, February 14, 2024

February Fun

Lest you think we sat around with nothing to do, here's a few fun things we celebrated this month! Chinese New Year (or Lunar New Year) changes from year to year. This year, it fell on Saturday, February 10. Currently, our Saturdays have been pretty busy between basketball and volleyball games, but we still found a little time to commemorate the day. Since it's the year of the dragon, I got Jonas some dragon socks along with his lucky red envelope with gold coins and a few paper fortune "cookies" to go along with our dragon fruit breakfast smoothies. Then, in between his games, we went to Panda Express for lunch. We enjoyed our chow mien noodles (for longevity) and egg rolls (for wealth). I wish I could say that we did more, but we didn't. We had plans to go to a Chinese cultural festival, but with everything going on, we missed it. In years passed, we have made crafts, but that's not really Jonas's thing at this point, so we settled for some yummy food to honor the day.


The following day (Sunday, February 11) was Super Bowl LVIII. This year saw a match up between the reigning champs, the Kansas City Chiefs, and the San Fransisco 49ers. Jonas woke up that morning and decided he wanted to make a football pancake. He told me that he wanted to make the day special with something little, just like I always tell him I try to do with the smaller holidays or celebrations that come our way. I, as usual, chose menu items for the dinner that night to honor each team. For Kansas City, we had brisket and macaroni & cheese. For San Fransisco, we enjoyed cioppino (a seafood stew) and sourdough bread. Desserts were quite the mash-up as well. We had Ghiradelli brownies and chocolate for San Fransisco and ice cream cones (which is surprisingly the official state dessert of Missouri) for Kansas City. All the kids joined us as well as a some friends for an evening of delicious food and incredible football. The game was pretty stagnant in the first half, but by the third quarter things started to get interesting. The game ended up going into overtime and resulted in a last second win for the Kansas City Chiefs. Jonas was pretty excited because he was rooting for them the entire game (even when it seemed like they wouldn't win).






A couple days after the Super Bowl, we celebrated Valentines Day. As Jonas is getting older, these little holidays are becoming more simple. However, each year, I place a little heart on the boys' doors every day for 14 days with something that I love about them. I like the practice of taking time to ponder on all the reasons I love and am grateful for each of them. This year was even more special because Jonas returned the gesture. One day, we were preparing the valentines goodies for his class when he asked me for 10 hearts (because it was the 10th day of the month). I assumed that he was going to write a few special notes for specific friends so I got him the hearts and went about the tasks that I needed to. Minutes later I headed toward my room to grab something and saw my door filled with hearts. I got teary-eyed as I silently read each one. I never asked him to do that. I never expect hearts in return. I do it because I want to...and so did he. He has always been a more tender-hearted and observant boy. He wrote several things like: kind, thankful, hard worker, good education, pretty, etc. He added a few "thank you" type hearts, but the heart I loved the most was the one where he said, "Loves God." I was so grateful that he saw that in me. That is what I want to be remembered for. I kept that heart and placed it on my dresser to remind myself to be that type of person who exudes a love of God. Other than our daily hearts, we no longer participate in any holiday-themed activities or crafts, but we still enjoy taking a moment to celebrate the day with little gifts and fun foods. I made heart-shaped pancakes for breakfast and got a heart-shaped pizza from Papa Murphy's for dinner. Plus, I made a cute little heart pastry for dessert. I got to watch Carter and Everly that day so they joined us for our dinner and dessert. Jeff and I actually got to sneak away for a lunch date and an evening show of Fiddler on the Roof at Hale Center Theater. Casey came to the house to hang out with the kids while we went to lunch at Magelby's then Jonas just chilled at the house on his own while we went to Fiddler. I love that he's old enough to do that (and that my in-laws are right next door just in case). I loved spending that time with Jeff. Our lives get so busy that it's hard to find time to connect. I had found the tickets to Fiddler but he made the effort to make lunch happen. He is my true Valentine. He shows me that every day in word and action. 









It may not have been a very busy month (which was kind of nice), but we still found time to have fun and celebrate life!

Friday, February 2, 2024

Another random road trip...

Jeff and I are off again! After Disneyland at the beginning of December, I literally didn't have any trips planned...but that didn't last. I started planning a Spring Break trip then we kind of invited ourselves to Atlanta for Amber's post-graduate graduation in May...and I'm toying with planning a trip to Iceland. Still, this current trip was definitely spontaneous. Jeff has wanted a new truck. The old F-150 is just that...old. One night, he started to do a nationwide search for a newer truck...and found one in Missouri! Within a week, we were on a plane headed to St. Louis. Can I just say that I love these trips with Jeff? I love road trips. I love being trapped in a car with my husband where we just get to reconnect while we drive through areas we've never seen. Road trips usually mean that we don't get to explore everything that certain cities or locations have to offer, but we still find something to see everywhere we go. This trip was more fast-paced than our normal road trips because we had a small window of time to get the truck and get back home before weekend sports events. We usually only try to drive 6 hours or less a day to allow ourselves more time to explore random places, but this trip we had to drive at least 8 hours each day to get back home when we needed too. However, we made the most of it. We saw some unique sites and ate some incredible food...and just enjoyed being together. We flew into St. Louis on Tuesday (1/30). A gentleman from the dealership (aka Santa Claus) picked us up from the airport and transported us the couple hours to the dealership. Once we finalized the sale of the truck, we climbed in an immediately headed south. Now, the logical route would have been to head west through Kansas and Colorado, but we had no desire to drive through Kansas (sorry Danny!); plus, we were unsure about the winter storms that would be passing through Colorado so we headed south before heading west. We stopped near the Lake of the Ozarks for dinner just as the sun was setting. Our dinner was incredible! I'm still salivating over our dessert platter. Moreover, the view was breathtaking as we got to watch the sun set. It had already been a long day, but after dinner, we pushed on another hour or so before finally arriving in Springfield...and at Bucc-ees! Yup...Jeff finally got the chance to be a part of the cool kid club that has been to Bucc-ees. He just shook his head when he saw the 100 gas pumps. Bucc-ees is definitely an experience! We wandered around the store for a few minutes so he could really soak it all in then drove the short 10 minutes to our hotel for the night.









We didn't rush out the next morning (Wednesday, 1/31). Instead, we headed toward the Fantastic Caverns for a tour of the only drive-thru cave in America. Missouri is known as the cave state so it only seemed fitting to do a cave tour before we left. It was the off season so we were the only ones on the tour. Prior to hopping in the little jeep, we wandered around the grounds. We found a cool trail that led to a small river. This part of the country is really beautiful. I loved our morning walk (although I was also anxious to get going). Our cave tour was about an hour. It is an incredible cave with many unique cave formations. One thing that was cool about being in a vehicle was that we saw higher which allowed us to more closely view some of the new "soda straw" formations on the ceiling. This cave was discovered after a hound dog, Juno, disappeared from his owner. The owner went after him and discovered the massive cavern; however, he kept it a secret because of the Civil War that was raging. He didn't want either side to commandeer the cave for weapons storage or shelter. After the war ended, he enlisted the help of some cave experts to map out the cave. Little did he know that those experts were 12 women! These women showed up and went to work. The even signed their names on the cave wall that is still visible today. Prior to the cave being open for public tours, it was also an illegal speak-easy for a period of time. Oh if those cave walls could talk! I'm glad we stuck around to do the tour, but as soon as it was over, we moved out. 





























For the rest of the day, we followed the old Mother Road. Yup...Route 66! Route 66 was developed in the late 1920s and lasted a few decades before President Eisenhower signed the Insterstate Highway Act in 1956 which allocated $25 billion for the construction of 41,000 miles of interstate highways. Over the next 29 years, section after section of Route 66 was methodically bypassed by multi-lane, high speed expressways enabling motorists to increase their speeds and avoid congestion. This was a time-saving advantage, but a distinct disadvantage to the businesses and communities along the route (think of the Disney movie, Cars). Where customers once thronged, they rarely showed up at all. So many diners, motels, and service stations were forced to shutter their doors and are now ghostly shells of what once was. We pulled on and off the main interstate to visit a few stops along the original Route as we drove from Missouri, through Oklahoma, and into Texas. We stopped at a renovated and rebuilt service station called Pops. They had gas services, a diner, and hundreds of different sodas. We picked out 6 different root beers to try with the family once we got home. We pushed on past Lucille's Place (and old service station) and stopped in Clinton to see the Route 66 museum. They did a good job at taking us through the history of the Mother Road from the 20's to present. We kept moving towards Texas and stopped in Shamrock (just over the border) at the old Conoco Service Station and Diner that inspired the Disney animators who designed Ramone's body shop in Cars. From there, we drove a little of the backroads of the original route. There were remnants of eras passed then open fields. We (or rather I insisted) had to stop to get a picture of the road as the sun was setting. We finally made it to Amarillo where we stopped for the night. Before we checked into the hotel, we decided to get dinner at the famous Big Texan Steakhouse. This was a remnant from the old route that had survived. The food was good...but BIG! They even had a plate with a 4.5 lb steak, a baked potato, salad, a roll, and some shrimp that if you can finish, you get it for free! There was one guy who attempted to do it while we were there but he just couldn't finish. (The record is actually held by a woman! This small 128lb woman actually ate THREE of those dinners in TWENTY minutes!) Once our bellies were sufficiently full, we headed to the hotel.





























The next morning, we met up with Sidnee Oliver (Kevin and Catrina's daughter) who is currently serving her mission in Amarillo. We took her and her companion out to breakfast before we hit the road again. It was good to see her and hear about her mission. She is doing an awesome job! After we dropped them off, we kept heading west. We passed Cadillac Ranch (we'd already been there) and stopped in Adrian at the midpoint of Route 66. We'd already been there once, but since we'd drive so much of the road, I figured we should stop again. From there, we headed into New Mexico and finally left the Mother Road to head toward Santa Fe. Neither Jeff nor I have ever been to Santa Fe so we stopped and spent a couple hours roaming around the downtown area. I love these old, Spanish-influenced cities that have the plazas in the center of town with the old churches. There was so much history in this one little place from the native peoples that populate the area to the Spanish and eventually other European settlers. We even visited the San Miguel mission, which is the oldest church structure in the U.S. It was a beautiful little church. From there, we visited the state capitol (not quite as pretty as others) then stopped into the Loretta church as we were walking back towards the truck. In my quick research of what to do in the area, this church had not come up, but I'm so glad we stopped in! This little church was modeled after Sainte Chapelle in Paris. Unfortunately,  the architect died before access to the choir loft was built. Given the height of the loft, and the small size of the chapel, a staircase would have taken up too much floor space. Legend states that seeking guidance and help, the Sister of Loretto (the 6 nuns sent to this mission) prayed a nine-day novena St. Joseph, the Patron Saint of Carpenters (a novena is a special prayer said for nine consecutive days). On the final day of the novena, a carpenter appeared with only a hammer and carpenter's square. He built what in now known the miraculous staircase with simple tools and wooden pegs. The rare wood is not native to the Southwest. When the staircase was complete, the carpenter disappeared without receiving thanks or payment. The staircase has two complete 360-degree turns with no center pole for support. The entire weight of the staircase rest on the bottom stair. The railings were added ten years later due to the difficulty of climbing the stairs with no support. The underside of the stairs were originally open,  but was later filled in with a horse hair and lime mixture painted to look like wood. The stairs were breathtaking! Evidently, many engineers and craftsman have been to examine the staircase and are baffled at how it was made. I loved the stairs, but the story was even more beautiful! Once we finished our little tour of Santa Fe, we kept moving on to Farmington where we indulged in a scrumptious New Mexican feast before checking into our hotel.






























Friday (2/2) was our final day of driving. As we looked at the map, we decided to add another 40 minutes to our drive by taking a road we'd never driven before. From Farmington, we headed into Arizona for about an hour to hit the Teec Nos Pos Trading Post on the Navajo Reservation. This trading post has been in existence since 1905. It is a general supply store for the Navajo people and also a place where they can sell their handmade goods. Jeff has been fascinated with the intricate wool rugs the Navajo women weave. He loves hearing the stories off how they shear the sheep, spin the wool, dye the wool, then weave the rug. Much of those traditions (other than weaving the rug) have faded over generations. It's simply cheaper to buy the yarn rather than make it (plus the colors don't fade as much); however, he loves to admire the real rugs when he gets the chance. At the trading post, there was an entire room dedicated to these rugs and other handmade items. There were even some rugs (of course the most expensive ones) that followed the original tradition. No...he didn't buy any, but he did buy a frame with the plants used to make the dyes and the yarn color that came from those plants. I am always amazed at these types of skills. I'm sad that these skills have faded with the invention of modern machinery and conveniences. I can't say that I'm sad that I get to benefit from those modern inventions, but I do wonder what would happen if disaster struck and all those "conveniences" became obsolete. Yikes! Once we made our purchases (I got a small dream catcher), we pushed on to home. This time we drove up to Blanding then over to Fry Canyon and Hanksville (this is where Butch Cassidy used to hide out; it was once called Robber's Roost) before meeting back up with the I-70 to Green River, north through Price, then dropping down into Spanish Fork Canyon. At this point, it was just a fast push home, but we did stop to see where the Colorado River dumped into Lake Powell. Most of that part of Utah is a bland desert landscape, but the part right around the river was pretty with vast canyons and more shrubbery. 










We finally made it home in time to pick Jonas up from school and take him to taekwondo before we headed to UVU to watch Jacob wrestle. There have only been a couple times we've been able to see him wrestle (most of his matches are out-of-state) so we wanted to make the effort since it would be his last year. Dallin even got in the action with a little mid-match sack race. Unfortunately, his friend, Bryant, beat him at the last second. We had a fun evening reconnecting with our kids. I feel incredibly grateful and lucky to have been blessed with such an amazing family. We are definitely not perfect, but we love and show up for each other. 





It was a quick trip but the perfect little break to connect with Jeff and enjoy this amazing country we live in.