Monday, January 28, 2013

Home!!

The cruise ended on January 27th. We flew from Houston back to Phoenix where we spent one final evening with my parents and visiting Tyler and Kate (my nephew and niece) before we took the 10 hour drive home. As we got closer, I steeled my nerves to brace (or try to embrace) for the cold weather. This Arizona girl is going to have a lot to adjust to in the coming months. However, the cold could not pentrate the warm feeling I felt inside when we got home and realized the kids had made a "Welcome Home" sign. I was truly home.

 
The couple weeks I've been home and have been full of ups and downs. The first week I kept busy organizing my things and starting to decorate the house (see the following pictures), but the second week I struggled to figure out where I fit now. I don't necessarily miss working, but I miss being busy. I've spent almost 34 years building a life that has almost completely changed in 8 months. Now I am floundering a bit as I try to find out who "Alisha Southwick" is. I am excited to have contacted the boys' teachers and to be able to work in their classes. I am looking forward to helping Jeff with some business aspects and to continue to manage the affairs of the house. I love participating in the kids' activities. I have been given a calling in the ward (primary teacher). Now all I need is time to let it all sink in and discover the new me.





Sunday, January 20, 2013

Honeymoon

After a perfect wedding, Jeff and I set sail for a perfect week-long honeymoon cruise to Cozumel, the Cayman Islands, and Jamaica! We couldn't have asked for a more idyllic trip. The weather was goregous and the excursions were a blast. The best part was that we were able to share it all with each other - best friends. I look forward to all the many trips we will take together...but especially to have a companion on my journey through life.
 
 
Our first stop was to Cozumel, Mexico. Jeff and I didn't actually stay in Cozumel. We quickly got off the ship, jumped on a ferry and made our way to Playa del Carmen. From there, we hopped on a bus and headed for the Mayan Ruins of Tulum. The ruins were breathtaking! The were perched on a cliff overlooking the Caribbean Sea. The water was crystal clear. The whole scene was indescribable. Jeff and I were intrigued by the ancient culture and the history they left behind. This was a small site compared to more well-known sites (e.g., Tikal, Xichen Itza) but it was no less beautiful. We were especially intrigued by the Temple to the Descending God and the similarity to the story found in the Book of Mormon. We knew this civilization was most likely built after Christ's coming to the Americas, but thought of how the story must have been passed on from generation to generation before being lost. 
 
 

There were iguanas everywhere. This one was nice enough to stop and pose.

Jeff and I in front of the Temple to the Descending God



 
 
Our next stop were the Cayman Islands. Here we leisurely walked through artisan markets and souvenir shops to pick out gifts for the kids and our parents before we made our way to Tiki Beach at 7 mile beach. The water was just as clear as what we'd seen in Mexico. Unfortunately, the reef was pretty close so we were unable to swim as far out or as long as we had wanted. Still the cool water was refreshing and we enjoyed relaxing on the beach!
 


 
 
The final stop on our cruise was by far our favorite - Jamaica!! We loved the energy and the positive attitudes of all the people with whom we came in contact. Moreover, the scenery was lush and green! For an Arizona girl that's a huge deal! In Jamaica, we booked a more adventurous excursion that included zip lining through a jungle then hiking 600 feet up Dunn's River Falls. The falls were gorgeous...and the water was chilly! Still Jeff had no problem dunking me then stealing a kiss or two when he could to make up for it.

 
 
 


 



 
 
The excursions were so much fun!! But we even enjoyed just lounging on the ship. We saw a magic show, a variety show (with talent from the cruise staff), a singing/acting show, etc. We also swam, relaxed in the hot tub, read in lounge chairs, played mini golf, etc.
 
 

Our stateroom. We enjoyed the view...and all the fun towel animals.


Our favorite little towel animal...the cool bunny.

The Royal Promenade...shopping, live music, and Ben and Jerry's ice cream. 
The theater where we watched the magic show and other shows. 
Our dining room
Formal dining night...Jeff looks so handsome!
 
 
We enjoyed being together, but were anxious to get back to the kids by the end of the week. I couldn't have asked for a better honeymoon...or for a better person to spend it with. I just felt incredibly grateful all week to have shared this experience with Jeff.




Saturday, January 19, 2013

Our wedding

 
The day I had anticipated for nearly 34 years (ok...maybe not that entire time...I'm sure I didn't care when I was a toddler or in elementary school) finally arrived! I can't believe how quickly the time has flown and how much my life has changed since that initial email in June 2012. I never expected my eternal companion to be in the situation he is in, but I can't imagine life any other way. Today I not only married the love of my life and my best friend, but I also get the privilege to live with and help raise four incredible kids. Many women may think I'm crazy; others may think I'm strong - I simply think I'm blessed. The day could not have gone any more perfectly either. The weather was gorgeous. Friends and family were all around. The reception was simple, yet elegant. It was my perfect day. Here are a few photos from the day.

The new (and improved) Mr. and Mrs. Jeff Southwick!!!
 
The Jeff and Alisha Southwick family!
 
The Shumway grandkids
 

The new Shumway clan...just doubled!
 
Our gorgeous cake! Thanks Aunt Barb!!
 
 
Daddy daughter dance. I love you Daddy!
 
Our first dance as husband and wife
 
The Southwicks...showing everyone how's it's done! 

Goodbye!!! 




Thursday, January 17, 2013

Formal Wedding Pictures

The Thursday before we were married Jeff and I took formal wedding pictures. Jeff still had yet to see me in my dress...or to even see the dress. I was excited! I finally got to wear the beautiful white gown. It seemed as if I was living someone else's dream. This couldn't possibly be real. My sister, Nichole, and niece, Kate, came over to the house to help me get into my dress while my mom made it home from work. Nichole and Kate then took Jeff and met the photographer at the temple. My mom and I finished getting my veil on and fixed my make-up then headed to the temple as well. The photographer had strategically placed Jeff facing east as I was instructed to walk up behind him from the west. I could sense his smile grew bigger with each click on my approaching heels. I walked right up to him and placed my hand on his shoulder while the photographer snapped a few photos. Jeff anxiously, yet patiently endured the photos until he was finally instructed to turn around. As my eyes met those of my eternal companion the dream I felt I had been living became a reality. My eternal companion was before me - gazing tenderly into my eyes as he pulled me in for a loving embrace. I could not withhold the tears. Finally! All the tears and heartaches I'd endured over the years, all the shattered hopes and dreams...washed away with each tear of joy. I had found my love and my life's companion. The photographer didn't have to remind us to smile as we posed for our pictures. This was my time! Here are a few shots from those moments.